After James’ death, I wrote a number of Facebook posts, which received quite a number of comments, likes and shares. Moving forwards, i plan to add a thought every week, and link to it from my facebook instagram and twitter pages with a photo, so that it gives my a focus for each week, and opportunity to revisit this site and refreshit, and a way of sharing that is not overwhelming for others.

They are here…

Initial post, with request to do talk with the people you love and not get distracted by the bullshit https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158807333688795/

Update pre Miami, and request to do 5 things https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158811074008795/

Birthday thoughts about what makes a meaningful life https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158816362673795/

Update from Miami with the 2 mums https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158820239238795/

Update from Home and the word patient https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158826757388795/

Update and Kintsugi https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158831431718795/

Planning funeral, and no words https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158841088223795/

Final preparations and the Miz Maze https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158845719653795/

Link to the much loved page, and blue sky thinking https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158848499873795/

Thoughts and pictures before the funeral https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158853291548795/

Passenger Scare away the dark on the morning https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158856184693795/

Candles and link to first weekly writing on Thoughts https://www.facebook.com/685908794/posts/10158861608833795/